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生活中的5个球* q) K6 H1 p1 C( ^4 X& E
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson% ]; r* V- J+ z1 v6 V
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。1 f7 l; z- @8 H8 q% A1 N3 K# W4 h- `, E2 |
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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7 n; ? Q* t0 g你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。* w! Q& O0 E* D
% Y& A8 q8 p- Q. \3 o2 e6 p怎样才能做好?
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0 p9 `1 S& n! n1 m1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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/ R6 X/ W% u ?: z% B! ?8 ~2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。6 R% w8 _* ~' o( _8 `
0 w6 t! T ~3 b" f3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。" O i# J+ t9 L! o- B9 U' o
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。1 |9 J7 d& u# R% L0 v9 U( m" |' Y+ O
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。4 a7 k! T& G9 H* f7 T6 x* x
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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2 J8 ?% ~; V6 E4 H: ^ ~7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 ; ]! x, s" L$ R' d% q
9 d& _3 R1 W0 [8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。4 v% H* z4 G7 `) k( Y+ { m
$ d8 {, P" {- {: Y9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。/ E2 x! a2 s+ d* }) L+ D! ]9 ~
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。4 t( c& j7 P; F/ O% C
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。$ D0 a1 i2 w6 H9 B! V
! B5 Z% M( c* S12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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! T$ j! u' [, o# P" MFive Balls Of Life9 j* B& `. b7 z! F$ p7 f4 o
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
I+ }, g7 ^3 E: l9 n3 N! pIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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9 ?$ h/ v% j4 c, o5 RImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
, j9 L" |2 d: N: k. Q2 L) bYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.. n/ L: U0 ~: ~4 v* y
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2 l4 Y2 D; Y1 m6 r* B$ ~$ iYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
- u- S- O1 C0 A& M! X% g4 W& ^3 |They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?; d, x2 \! F0 _) t0 I1 t$ }$ j* C
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! ]! |4 D/ _' j6 Q" }- `# X, Z1 P1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.# I+ ?* S* R- \6 Y+ f; i
& `/ g# Y) A `* i4 o4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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2 F# h8 D) Z3 E2 D5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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9 p. N+ {2 C4 {9 d% R* \7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.& F+ a# x6 q5 X2 S d9 ~ V, U d
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings." p; }7 C: \* `
$ b$ g8 S# l% l, v+ {( y# z& h9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.- V/ H% n8 M, G: X7 f* o
5 o3 D+ f' V) P) }/ K10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.* \) T9 B& V0 | n2 q& K, I4 B
" \/ }& m! B h7 k/ R+ b5 _11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.$ P) B+ l2 L% O8 h3 L
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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