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生活中的5个球% `. u) b7 H5 [- \) x2 Z
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson/ L* H z0 v8 m4 m+ n
+ R# |: e3 E; p$ O l设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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+ y$ q4 L. y( X2 \ I& k你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。1 z) R! T& u1 r% ~4 z, Y' S
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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3 q. Q% q6 d, o) W* `! w怎样才能做好?% g. z7 W @. I- r3 x% o* k
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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- V# c Z/ C# U5 _; a9 |% x3 N3 ?' `2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。+ Q6 a( N! Q+ I7 Z& h$ M! k( ~
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。, W0 k Q6 N+ i. t% X4 Y% Z
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。2 ^9 Y6 l" m8 [- J* @. R/ y
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。) K" B$ D; |8 p- H" M& m+ J. a2 Z
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 , L2 C5 M: M3 U! K
: x+ f+ Q2 z) q3 Y1 G8 E) d8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。8 o) }0 q' M% P/ Z8 u3 o$ \
8 S$ \3 {5 {" b& s! f9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。. a0 u2 ^9 `+ y* Z$ b: }7 D/ `; s2 p$ {8 U
4 M6 s. m h3 L7 R, `10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。/ a! \3 E/ d; [7 X- }+ U
N! ?. R% s9 i( o- S. E11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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# ^. b+ F5 h# t |5 D原文:
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Five Balls Of Life1 a+ _8 Q" Z% d. S9 p N4 X) c3 `6 ]( B
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
8 N' Z" L% X+ t" B; V. mIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:4 I0 A: L3 ~; C( K* T
# F8 O: @! n8 m, ^: ?Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
" u+ O* y' Q5 eYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.2 ~3 s7 r9 D' f; ?
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0 S6 x5 K8 @- T& fYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
8 _ o- f' M% I# s. F6 mThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?; X% t, N% }) k' n0 `$ C/ \7 B
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U& `5 Z* O$ B3 V' S) B' u( r: A* n1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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% T& W" h1 ^) B4 U2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.8 r/ ?& a4 i) k% O7 t4 B; O
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.2 p6 b6 U+ d7 S" A% ^
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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) W5 V. i* Q, b1 u. R P ?7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.3 P% V2 ?& \2 m5 n* e7 H
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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0 q' U) h6 u' V7 g- n9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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/ M% r" O! R# f0 y. Y# b10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.. r/ q5 A7 x$ t+ m
7 b' w4 K+ Z, U! p5 n8 G# q E11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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) e* B* j0 ] @/ I9 q12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.0 s! Y$ ~* E) F( J! D% v" v: B- T- V1 r
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