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生活中的5个球' X+ O" d. t1 O! [% h! d! @3 r B) V
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson$ M4 j7 p( z0 D; {. H. p# x3 U
" w3 Y, T- G! h% Z, _设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。1 i1 q* D2 {5 M' {* b2 \5 z
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。3 {' `6 [4 y, p9 {1 K- B
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怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。6 c9 J/ ]6 B1 T, L3 T) A
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。0 G J- v- D1 Q% D+ P6 O
- r% |. n2 c/ d: x& r2 C% N5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。$ F" l6 w2 l+ D8 S
; ^& W* n1 Q B6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 8 D [7 ~# {+ y4 D; @% i! l5 Y# P
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。5 _2 ^1 C% |- C7 L7 Z; R- p O
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。8 Q% @% W% |8 Q5 q9 H+ W
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。& n( w# ^, E- U" R7 }# V/ C
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原文:
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& T, ~5 r: H/ |' [/ i1 nFive Balls Of Life
j2 b) G9 A0 r! y% b9 O+ a" J/ UThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.8 C9 l9 a7 B4 B3 e, @0 b% B
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:- `& e; Q, b$ x6 z' S! c! g5 Q4 M
% k6 j- _0 C3 BImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
, Z1 U' [: C4 p: h( g2 O1 [( W1 F- RYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.' r1 P4 r. ~+ h- u# `6 \3 r
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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/ y' ~) W3 t% E( b& \# s4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.8 X- W! J8 ^# ^+ {
: O* |, W" w3 d3 |, R3 [5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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) }% N0 Y/ a, v4 \$ M6 t# ] v6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.5 ~9 i* c. M: g' O% g. P6 ?2 q' r3 U7 Z
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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( q8 m, F0 I4 W" P1 n( H9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. B7 Z& Z/ J+ @: D$ \2 K
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.4 `( S/ F! q* l; i, w
8 U: l z4 R( U: q12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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